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A Child Sees

I have had to babysit many kids for many years and what I realize is that each child is of course different. The most recent child is a 2 years old boy. He is so adorable but so are every other kid, right. He loves to play but he is an only child. So sometimes I take the time out to play with him. It gets so tiring and that's how I know I am getting old. He was sick today and all of the sudden I was so sad. I didn't know what to do. He just had a cold, so why was I so sad?
I started to think about myself and if I were to have a child. How would I feel if my child were sick? They are so cute when they're happy. Keeping them happy is such a big priority. A child is huge responsibility. I start to think about all those kids who feel unloved by their parents. Why is it possible for a parent not to love their own child? What brings them so far from love?

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