A courtship is entering into a relationship or friendship with someone with the intentions of getting married. If you are a Christian than a courtship is the ideal way to follow God's will within that relationship. Having a courtship means letting go of earthly relationship desires until marriage. No physical contact is permitted within that relationship. The relationship is formed between you, your partner, and God. Through that relationship a certain level of respect is created for your partner. You learn how to genuinely care about each other. You no longer want to dominate the relationship. The love between you will grow. Being in that relationship forces you to understand that each of you are individuals going into your individual journeys but choosing to take both your separate journeys together as a couple.
Today is a day where I must give you the gift to what fuels my happiness. One day I simply forgot who I was because I was so busy trying to please everyone else. And when that happened I realized it was high time I defined who I was. That meant only doing things that made me happy and choosing only to do things that I wanted to do. I became happy. Along with that came lots of people who didn't like me, but that comes along with being yourself. Truly loving yourself is being okay with the fact that not everyone will like you. And that has to be okay. No longer doing things just because mom and dad wants you to, but rather researching and explaining why you want to choose a different path. Being respectful and having your facts ready helps in this situation. With that being said I have achieved a level of happiness that I never thought I was missing before. I fell in love with a man who is so in love with who he is that the strength of love that he has for me is inexplicable. The l...
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