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Secret to my Happiness!

Today is a day where I must give you the gift to what fuels my happiness. One day I simply forgot who I was because I was so busy trying to please everyone else. And when that happened I realized it was high time I defined who I was. That meant only doing things that made me happy and choosing only to do things that I wanted to do. I became happy. Along with that came lots of people who didn't like me, but that comes along with being yourself. Truly loving yourself is being okay with the fact that not everyone will like you. And that has to be okay. No longer doing things just because mom and dad wants you to, but rather researching and explaining why you want to choose a different path. Being respectful and having your facts ready helps in this situation. With that being said I have achieved a level of happiness that I never thought I was missing before. I fell in love with a man who is so in love with who he is that the strength of love that he has for me is inexplicable. The love that I have for this man makes me so much more happy than I was before that I cannot settle for less.
The information you should retain from reading this small post is that loving yourself and accepting who you are will allow you to in turn provide a love so great and being able to receive a love so great that you will achieve great heights of happiness. Happiness so extreme that only you will ever be able to understand what fuels it within you. With that being said if you have a lover in your life that you feel deserves something physical, to represent just a very small percentage of what they mean to you gift them something. Always keeping in mind that your greatest gift to them is how you show them love.

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