Take the Garbage out!!!

If you are with a man who you feel needs to change who he is simply to make you happy and not for his own good, let that man go. He is not for you. A man who is packaged for you will be so right for you that you will want him with all his flaws. You are whole as a human being. Stop looking for someone to complete you. A person can only complement you. It does not matter how nice someone seems if the person is causing you emotional or physical pain, let that person go.
The same rule applies to everyone that comes into your life.
If you have a friend who is constantly asking you to change to fit their narrative of what a friend should be, throw that friend away. That friend is not yours. That friend is somebody else's. The reverse can also be said. The only reason you should be asking someone to change or someone should be asking you to change it is if and only if you have a particular habit that is negative and needs an update. If the person is trying to infiltrate your mind with their personal agenda of they think you should be like then throw them away. Even if it is a family member.
You cannot let toxicity fill your space. Take the garbage out. Because at the end of the day people are only out for themselves. And it's not a bad thing. The sooner you realize that the better your life will get. Look out for yourself. Don't expect people to help you or to do things for you or to respect you. But you have the power of who can enter and stay in your life.
Move on. Get better friends. Get a better man or woman. Although you cannot replace family, the space created once you remove the toxic ones will leave more room for love, growth, and kindness. The rule is if they are causing you more pain than joy, they are a toxic waste to your life.
IT IS TIME TO TAKE THE GARBAGE OUT! You will thank me later.

Smooches😘