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Antiperspirants and deodorants: breasts cancer vs.aluminum

There has been this growing demand among consumers, particularly the women for aluminum free deodorant which created this new market for organic deodorant.So now we jump from 2.2 oz. of antiperspirant for $3 to 2.2 oz. of natural or "organic" deodorant for $13. That's a whopping $10 extra. How did we get to this point? Breast cancer. People are afraid. Afraid of dying, afraid of losing hair,... The companies targeted people's response to take action when they are fearful.One of the websites, which shall remain nameless, that I can find an article relating to the link between aluminum and breast cancer is basically a WordPress site ran by some random individual, claiming to be a doctor, who is just trying to make a living. He is also selling his own products and even cited his work. It makes it seem very legit. We cannot fault people for trying to make money. He or she probably got paid to post these findings on his/her page to create a demand for natural deodorants....

Let it be known

Heard you're looking for me. Well here I am. What's really good? Let me know, because I got business. I mind mine. So mind yours. Next time you need me just call me. Sweeter than honey, but too icy; catch a cold.

Tender

There is a song witten by Phyllicia Ross named Can't Resist. That beat to that song reminds me of a loving, tender, and beautiful kind of feeling. Just wanting someone so bad that you feel addicted. It is never safe to be in that situation in an unrequited love. but that feeling in real is so beautiful when it is between two people. An honest kind of pure love that will never die out lest you let your flame diminish. Just listen to the song. I Can't Resist your eyes

What exactly is a courtship? And is it right for you?

A courtship is entering into a relationship or friendship with someone with the intentions of getting married. If you are a Christian than a courtship is the ideal way to follow God's will within that relationship. Having a courtship means letting go of earthly relationship desires until marriage. No physical contact is permitted within that relationship. The relationship is formed between you, your partner, and God. Through that relationship a certain level of respect is created for your partner. You learn how to genuinely care about each other. You no longer want to dominate the relationship. The love between you will grow. Being in that relationship forces you to understand that each of you are individuals going into your individual journeys but choosing to take both your separate journeys together as a couple.

Take the Garbage out!!!

If you are with a man who you feel needs to change who he is simply to make you happy and not for his own good, let that man go. He is not for you. A man who is packaged for you will be so right for you that you will want him with all his flaws. You are whole as a human being. Stop looking for someone to complete you. A person can only complement you. It does not matter how nice someone seems if the person is causing you emotional or physical pain, let that person go. The same rule applies to everyone that comes into your life. If you have a friend who is constantly asking you to change to fit their narrative of what a friend should be, throw that friend away. That friend is not yours. That friend is somebody else's. The reverse can also be said. The only reason you should be asking someone to change or someone should be asking you to change it is if and only if you have a particular habit that is negative and needs an update. If the person is trying to infiltrate your mind wi...

Putting my thoughts down... hahaha don't read this though lol

Over the years I realized that whenever I thought of myself I always criticized everything I did and all my physical attributes. But a good friend of mine once told me that your physique has nothing to do with who you can be or who you are. The good friend said that relying on or worrying about my physical appearance is a waste of time. I always thought that I just had low self esteem. But deep down I always knew who I was and what I was capable of, good or bad. I knew that I could do anything I wanted. But somehow I placed too much emphasis on how I dressed and looked. I have to say everyone is like that, people care how they look. It is the way society functions. But I no longer wanted to care what other's thought of me. No matter what I chose to wear, people would criticize me anyway. I am not waking up each morning for someone else. I am waking up for myself. I am waking up because I am confident that I am capable of achieving my goals. And how I looked had absolutely nothing ...